(SOCIAL LIFE):☝: IS THE 21st CENTURY WOMAN, DIFFERENT FROM THE 19th OR 20th CENTURY WOMAN? A SOCIAL-POLITICAL CRITIC, CRIES OUT 😉.

This question about our women of today and that of old, might seem intriguing  and strange in appearance.
But the fact is, women will always be women and a men will always be men,  as God the creator, created them.
So notwithstanding and reasonably, women holds the greatest responsibility to the upbringing and education of their children likewise the men, but a woman plays a more greater role in many aspects in the life of any child that has grown up, to be a man or another woman.
So, to go deep as to the concerns and cry of a facebook user (DAVIS AKIDI), the #NiivannaaTeam had brief chat with 8 different men (Some not married and some still to marry) on the topic:

Davis Akidi

"Is there a difference between the ladies/women of today and that of old, attitude and character wise?"
Nearly all of them said "YES" with different reasons. But of the married said something that our attention:
They said,
1. When their parents got married and them growing up, their discovered that no matter the problems arising! They was no issue like divorce or separation.
But divorce is a rampant thing today (explained how some problems were solved).
2. Secondly, the other man said, their mothers were very respectful, hardworking and less materialistic as today. And that married women were noble, warm at heart and very much respected.
3. And lastly, accusations fumed on the economic changes and socialization.
Well, you might add your own thought to this topic on the comment box.

All said, this is what  (DAVIS AKIDI of the AKIDI FOUNDATION) had to say, as he pointed out his observations.
Hear him; 👇👇

☝ SOME LADIES ARE NOT READY TO GAIN THEIR SELF RESPECT AGAIN!!!
Read carefully...

👌 A lot of girls now our days complain that guys walk away from them simply because, they refused to give them sex. Some are even tempted to give away their virginity just to keep the guys 😕.

 ☝ LET_ME_BE_VERY_BLUNT_HERE...😇

👉 Virginity or sex may not be the real reason why the guys go away. Yes, no doubt, there are several guys who want sex, and if they don't get it they walk away...😬
The problem may not be the virginity or the sex...😎

👉 The story of the Ten virgins in the bible reveals that both the wise and the foolish were virgins; the other Five, were not refused seeing the bridegroom because they were virgins or because they lost their virginity, NO! But because they were foolish;
They were called foolish because they had no # EXTRA OIL🙌.
And the EXTRA OIL here is CHARACTER!🙋

👉 Most girls do not have extra oil to sustain any relationship, while many brag about their virginity, that's all they have to offer.
👤 Aside your virginity, what do you have to offer to a man? Can you support him spiritually? Can you support him physically? How about mentally? all you do is demand money for bags👜, shoes👠, clothes,👗👖👙 and outing making him spend unnecessarily.

👉 Have you ever sit him down and you help him plan about his future?
💭has he ever see you as someone he can confide in?👫
How many times has he come being in a state of dilemma seeking advice from you?😭
Rather you keep jumping from one club to another 😵😱.

👉 And for the virgins, don't forget that virginity ends after the wedding but EXTRA OIL (CHARACTERS) continues...!!!
☝ Be wise and get Extra oil, okay !!!"

Character! Character ! Character...
Well, God himself emphasis on character as precept to everyone in the Bible.
So, has evolution change things?
Is the social media responsible for this many changes? Not leaving out the economic changes?
Change is constant, but positive change is evolutive.

What's your thought about this issue?
Share your comment !!!


Nirva Naa.